Choice. What does choice really mean? I hear parents all the time saying things like:
"If you don't pick up (insert problem) your toys, we're not going to the (insert super fun activity that's been planned for the day) park."
"Sit down in your seat. Sit down in you seat. Sit down in your seat....(insert any repetitive command)"
"How many times do I have to ask you to put your shoes on before you go outside."
"You've gone far enough. (Child starts crying.) Ok, you can go just a little bit further."
My dear friends, if you ever find yourself saying any of the things above - then "choice" can become your best friend. Choice is defined as, "an act of selecting or making a decision when faced with two or more possibilities." This warrants a quick conversation about good choices and bad choices. Good choices are going to set you both up for success. Bad choices are not going to serve either of you. So you want to pick your choices carefully (and keep some in your pocket as well).
As a Montessori trained Educator I often hear people say that Montessori is for every child but not for every parent. I really couldn't agree more. For best results for children, parents, and teachers, parents need to know what they're getting into with an authentic Montessori program, because it's way different than a traditional program. Montessori is not for every parent and as a result may not be for every child either. (Which is okay, too!)
If you prefer standardized testing as a measure of your child's success, you may not be good fit for Montessori.
This doesn't mean teachers or guides don't test your students knowledge on a subject or curriculum area. It just means it's done in a different way then a standardized test.
If you prefer your child to be with a group of children that are the same age as your child, you may not be a good fit for Montessori.
(There is nothing wrong with wanting your child to be in a group of children the same age.)
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